You'd ask a patient with Multiple Sclerosis to just hang aroun a year and suffer, because some elements of society might view them poorly?
That's a comparable situation in the way that both conditions are very potentially deadly without treatment, but incomparable in that you suggest a complete non-treatment of MS to mirror my suggestion, while I suggest only a partial treatment (change in public gender expression and role). In the Standards of Care for transgender people there are four treatment options mentioned:
I am suggesting that 1) should be used, in most cases, before 2).
"I won't give it to you until you jump through arbitrary hoops."
I'm trying to argue the hoops are not arbitrary
Is a woman with short hair wearing pants not a woman?
Absolutely, but a name change and coming out as a woman, asking people to use the correct pronouns and name, is a much bigger part of being a woman - and that's what the gender expression and role is all about.