CMV: despite the popular notion of "don't workout/lift for girls, do it for yourself", most do it because it will make them more attractive to women

Do you really think I'm some gym bro? I've been that but hardly anymore. It's laughable to think that girls really care how much muscle you have. They care that you care about your own body. Hell my bmi is only (up to) 22.

Yet still I work out every day. Not for girls. I've picked up hotties at a 16 bmi. As a man. A skeleton. You don't believe me? I have pictures of them. I've picked up girls as a skinny fat fuck at a horribly disgusting overweight bmi of 25 as well.

No. I lift because it makes me feel good. It makes me feel good and this manifests itself into how I act and truly am with girls. But more importantly how I feel about myself.

The truth is that how a girl's body is matters so much for them. You can not believe how much. I've seen guys who get mad about this. oh those lucky girls! All they have to do is eat lettuce and shove their fingers down their throats when they go crazy and eat five donuts! So fucking lucky!

Oh those girls. So lucky. They just have to eat lettuce and shove their fingers down their throats and they can get pumped and dumped by a guy like me. What amazing lives they lead. How fucking lucky they are. But is that some cellulite on your ass? Better get on that girl.

The truth I've seen is that I can be at a 24 bmi as ripped nothing but muscle and do far worse than looking like a concentration camp victim. We are luckier than they are here. I truly do only lift because it makes me feel good. They don't get to do this.

And do you really think that a girl can get a guy like me without caring about her weight? In the sickness of modernity where sugar is shoved down our throats 24/7? Would you be surprised to find out that a guy like me pretty much always ends up with a girl with some kind of eating "disorder"? What isn't a disorder in this filth?

Don't get confused and think you are a girl. You can have the most amazing body, male model, but you are not a girl. You are a man. And while we care so much about that don't project. They do not care anywhere near to the level we do. Though they do care.

Women wish men were like them. That we truly care that they work out just to feel good about themselves. Just to have that happiness. And us? Why? We wish that we were like women. That we could so carefully (and with such intense insanity) create a body and somehow they will love is just for our body. The way we really do for them.

No one wins. Everyone has to face the harsh truth. We all have it hard, and in completely different ways. Men are not women. Women are not men. No matter how easy it looks to be the grass on the other side. Nobody has it easy.

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