CMV: I'm a straight male against dating bisexual women.

Then what makes you not desire penis when you have vagina? And vagina when you have penis?

What makes you "stick" to vanilla ice cream if you like both vanilla and chocolate flavor? Don't you ever miss chocolate ice cream sometimes? Wouldn't you want that from time to time? And why wouldn't you ideally not want both, since you like both?

Nothing, but ice cream is significantly more involved than all that. I may currently be on a steady regiment of vanilla ice cream with whipped topping, two cherries, a bit of fudge and peanut butter, and crumbled oreo but that doesn't mean I don't also like chocolate. Just like it doesn't mean I also don't like vanilla with different toppings. It has nothing to do with a sudden lack of desire for chocolate, I'm just happy with my vanilla sundae at the moment.

Except any of the "open relationships" I've ever seen were solely with bi-women wanting to be with other women while married to their androgynous pansexual husband. Of course, you are probably logically right, but I just have no experience with EVER seeing a straight couple involved in an "open relationship."

So it doesn't happen? Just look around reddit, there are tons of communities right here for that very thing. I've known a few open relationships and none fit that tumbler mold you seem to think is so common.

I am fully aware I could be missing out on an amazing girl who just happens to be "bisexual." But the thought of being with one really freaks me out and makes me feel really uncomfortable. I guess I am here to see if that can be changed, though. As this Janice girl seems to be everything I want in a woman, aside from her basically being a lesbian and me picturing her going down on two naked women at a time.

Please don't take this as me dismissing you or trying to insult you because I disagree with you, but please do act on it. I honestly think you need to talk to somebody about this - not because I care if you ever date a bisexual, but you seem to have some serious sexual and relationship hangups that you just happen to be blaming on this one odd facet of things.

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