[CMV] Men are not, as RP asserts, the more romantic sex, who love idealistically and unconditionally

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I think women can see this sense of justice as calculating and unromantic - hence why the concept of SMV is offensive. In a way, women can love more deeply, more irrationally than men, and maybe this is why some feminists say that men are incapable of love - I read an interview of a supermodel once, and she was dating her model scout at the time. When someone asked her what her ideal man looked like, she said her boyfriend, and I believe she was sincere. Her boyfriend was a loser - a bald man shorter than her, a model scout, but she was in love. A man could never say the same - even if he was madly in love with a 6, the ecstasy of first love would bump her up to a 7.5 max. I've seen 10/10 models date, and even marry, hair-dressers, photographer assistants, and other randos in the fashion industry - simply because they were there. Sometimes when I read stories about women who are angry at their friends with benefits for not committing to them, I think: could they really be so dumb to think that they could snag someone of such a higher SMV? But then I think of these models dating absolute losers, and I think maybe the Holocaust story wasn't story planned, but just an accident after all, that women are often really just that bad at assessing their own SMV (although this isn't 100%, I heard someone post once that a girl once said to him "you look like the kind of guy I would marry, not sleep with in college).

As a closing statement, I don't women are capable of loving men as men want to be loved, but I don't think men are capable of loving women as how women want to be loved - at least not the past few generations of women who have their dignity staked in their career accomplishments and other attributes that they appreciate men for. And this is the reason why female careerism is socially toxic - once the bourgeois became wealthy in the late 18th century, they started demanding rights, then you got the French Revolution, the genocide in the Vendee, Fouche overseeing the mass slaughter of aristocrats, etc. Women are usually experts at dissembling, so I think it's impossible to gauge just how much rage there is at the fact that men don't like them for their career accomplishments, but if women could extract what they wanted from men by force, at a great psychological cost to men, I'm sure the "rape" rate would've multiplied a hundred fold between the 1970s and today.

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