CMV: There are more negatives than positives for men in their 20’s to date.

You are quite literally explaining to me why you are getting matches and aren’t struggling to date, compared to those who don’t.

You’re 6’3 and in medical school, and assuming you have a relatively good physical body. Look at most men who are below 6 feet, or let’s say guys who are even under 5’7. I’m referring to men who struggle to date. Obviously I’m not gonna tell every man in their 20’s to drop dating completely. I’m talking about men who are already struggling to date [especially with online dating]

Would it not be healthier for their mental health to delete all dating apps, quit dating and just focus on themselves? Sorry to say, but you’re presenting yourself as the exact type of man who is in the top 20-25% who don’t struggle with dating, and have no reason to quit dating. I’m talking about the ones below 75%-80% of men in their 20’s getting frustrated with dating, and is clearly affected them in many and every way possible.

You’ve only been able to do all that because as you said, you get multiple matches every day. A lot of men on dating apps can’t even get a match in a week, let alone every day.

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