Coming here to rant real quick

we cannot know what's going on his end (b/c we do not know him), but we can get a sense on what is going on yours.

"how did your xyz go" and when I answer, that's it.

what sorts of responses are you giving? are they the kind that facilitates easy back-and-forths?

If I say something back more question-y, like "how was your day," there's a 50% chance of a response.

okay, that is a difficult question to answer for many people: are you just supposed to say "good" or "okay," or if you have a more involved answer, does it make sense to talk about it over text? also, questions along the lines of "how was your day" are vague and do not show that you remembered anything about the person.

/r/OkCupid Thread