No, you're not wrong. Enough men are predators that non-predator men shouldn't be insulted by the precautions women take. If you're not a predator, prove it over time. Woman wants to give you her IG instead of her number? Who cares. Chat her up on IG and show you're not a creep. No reason to be insulted. Woman wants to meet at date location for first date instead of being picked up? Do what makes her comfortable and show you're not a creep. No reason to be insulted.
The type of men who are insulted by women taking basic precautions are the type of men a woman wouldn't want to be with anyway, so men who over react or complain about these precautions are quickly pushing away women who may have otherwise given them a chance. Very short sighted.