Committed ENFPs: Tell me the story of how you found your forever partner.

My boyfriend and I are the same types as you and your husband (I'm ENFP, he's INFP), and even though we haven't been together that long, he's my first healthy relationship and I know we want to be together for the long run. At this point it's also just a matter of waiting until it's 'socially acceptable' for us to get married, but we already live together (we've been dating about 2 months), and talk about our future together all the time - where we're going to live, what we'd name our kids and how we'd raise them, the places we want to travel together. We have different approaches to life, but very similar worldviews - we both have really active imaginations, and we always have so many ideas to explore together.

I've never felt this way about anyone before, and I've been in SEVERAL relationships (like 3+ long term relationships) that turned out to be extremely shitty and toxic. I feel like I've learned now how to recognize a good thing when I see it, and this relationship is definitely it for me. I love everything about him, and I love the person I am when he's around. I'm not afraid to express myself in a completely open way when I'm with him and it feels amazing: no one in my life has ever made me feel like that before. Even with my long term ex-boyfriends, I never fantasized about being a mother, but with him it's different. I actually feel excited about the future, and I feel like there's nothing that we can't accomplish together. I literally just came here to gush about my boyfriend, hahaha

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