If you actually understand that everything is your reflection and are improving your state, then things that aren't as good as your state - things that can't reflect your state back to you - have no choice but to "slip away". The good news is that they will be replaced with better versions of what they represent - unless you freak out. In which case, your state will drop and things move in the opposite direction.

"Who" reflects your state is a variable. If you're generally happy and your "SP" is generally...something else, then you can't reflect one another.

Your other SP was freed up to fetch you from the airport because you let go of the idea when you decided you'd take a taxi without having a hissy fit.

The part of you that does the doing knows your preferences. Intimately. It knows you, the state you're in, where you are in relation to all possibilities and every possible path to what you want - It isn't another mind. It's another aspect of your mind. Just as your heart and liver are two parts of your physiology, your human mind - with its "veiled" human ideas and understanding of the things you want and how they manifest - and your "greater" mind - the part of you that isn't affected or fooled by such things - are different parts of your consciousness.

You don't have to "work" or beg for what you want. All you have to do is think it would be nice to have and stay the hell out of the way of the part of you that does the actual manifesting.