Concerned about MIL moving to my city.

Honestly I would be insulted to even go to my parents and say thank you for letting me live with you with my spouse… but can I invite another grown adult to live here too...

They've been kind and understanding enough and it's unfair to expect them to live Cramped and uncomfortable or inconvenienced in their own home they're already generously sharing. Especially just to cater to his mother and her poorly planned random decision. Out of respect for your family who have been unbelievably kind so far she needs to be told directly that this is not an option.

The idea of asking at all is disrespectful enough but imagine her showing up on the porch and expecting to waltz on in period it's like when you're a kid and you invite your friend to spend the night/ask Your parents if they can in front of them .... Not only is uncomfortable and rude and disrespectful but it puts them in a spad situation to be the badge guy when they should have never been in the put in the situation to begin with.

Suggesting this or trying to encourage this could very well cause you have to lose your own security in the home and it's not worth that.

/r/JUSTNOMIL Thread