Concerns that my ex boyfriend has possibly put cameras/and or listening devices in my flat.

This is exactly how to lose court cases and fuck OP's life! You should never give advice! If he is doing something nefarious and it does go to court the moment she gets caught in a lie it's all over. This is why so many women fuck this up for themselves. You literally cannot help yourselves from being vindictive and seem incapable of thinking ahead. You are also condemning this man with no proof or trial, just the old fuck him he's a man bullshit. If OP has searched so extensively then she may possibly be paranoid and has got it wrong.

I was with my ex for 10years, we've been split for 10years but I could probably guess with a fair level of accuracy exactly where she is, what she's doing and maybe who with right now. I've not even seen her for about a year.

You see alot of women fundamentally never change their ways and absolutely refuse to, this is always expected of us men like we're some sort of "project" but never the other way around. We also have to spend all of our relationships learning to become psychic, predicting your moods. Knowing where you are and when to know your safe, pick you up and drop you off. Learning your routines, habits and way of living. Knowing what to feed you and where from for all the times you play the stupid food game. Even down to Knowing your tv schedule and monthly cycle to be able to open our mouths without losing our heads. We have to take everything in and so much more or we're bad partners. All of that means you become almost completely predictable.

Then we get kicked to the curb, all of a sudden we get called creepy because we spent so long living our lives revolving around you it becomes fucking ingrained and difficult to forget. This is possibly what her ex is doing. Well I hope it is for her sake.

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