Confrontative questions, for further understanding

I'm a sissy.

So the main question, what is it about this that you find appealing?

Honestly? I feel comfortable. It's not even the sex part so much as it is being able to express my feminine side.

-According to wikipedia, the appeal of being feminized or turned into a sissy comes from feeling humiliated during the act. But why exactly does one feel humiliated for dressing femininely? What part of dressing femininely/'like a girl' that you find humiliating?

I actually don't feel humiliated by it (which probably makes me a terrible candidate for being a sissy.)

-Assuming it is related to hypermasculine culture like "I'm a guy. I have to be a tough breadwinner, I can't be feminine at all!" and that this fetish is the radical antithesis of this, would you still have this fetish if the society non judgementally, allows men to be more open with their feminine side?

I probably wouldn't. Again, I enjoy this because I get to express my feminine side. I can't do that in normal society.

-I know some non binary friends and trans individuals that are very offended by this fetish. What are your thoughts on this? How do you defend your position when you encounter this situation?

It is absolutely an offensive fetish. That's why I've slowly been moving away from the "sissy" part to simply expressing myself.

-Another thing I noticed is that most people into this fetish were introduced through pornography. Is this true? Had you never watched sissy/TG/hypno feminized porn, would you ever have this fetish?

I found this specific fetish through pornography, but I was crossdressing well before that. When I was maybe 10-11 years old, I tried on my mom's clothes (in secret) not because of the sexual thrill, but because it felt right.

-People in my past have mentioned confusion with their gender identity while being into this fetish. Is this a common occurence? Is the practice of this fetish any way related to your gender identity?

It's certainly caused me to ask some questions of myself. I'm honestly really confused at the moment.

-How would you describe your sexual orientation?

I guess bi-curious would be a good way. I am only romantically attracted to women, and I prefer women sexually, but there have been a few men I've been attracted to sexually.

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