Confused

I do not know you or your husband.

I just came out to my wife recently. I told her everything I knew to be true about me on the day I came out to her. But since then, the liberation of my feelings and emotions and desires to be a woman has sent me on a Rollercoaster ride of emotions and realizations. I know who I am, the core being, my gender identity. But I don't know how to process the waves of emotions related to the life I'm finally getting to live. I don't know all my preferences because I spent a 40+ year life stuffing or ignoring those desires. That's me.

My wife is a mess. She is dealing with me. Doing this. To her. Surprise! She didn't chose this life that I will be imposing on her. She doesn't want to call me her wife. But she is trying to be super supportive.That's her.

Confused? Yep. We all are, when the normalcy of our lives are disrupted in such an unusual fashion. It's a day to day thing. I hope you get through this well.

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