Yea when I wrote though I felt it wasn’t right. I meant of course someone who would be a friend to us and okay with the situation and wanting to explore this together. I was hoping him telling me I’m possessive was just him trying to open my mind. I’m really do like to see other views but on this topic does it seem that if I don’t feel open now I’ll never be? And please no offensive, this is all new but is this something people develop. Like being bisexual for me has been around since I was young. Is poly like that in a way? He says he would only like it for one night stands and wouldn’t want to develop feelings but I really like a connect with people I’m sexual with. I feel one night stands would be like treating someone like a toy.