Continuation of "I think my wife is having an affair with a younger person"

She wants a divorce it doesn't matter if she started banging someone now. Your post comes off a bit obsessed to be honest. If you are looking for cheating for divorce proceedings your lawyer can help you with that. Don't search her panties man, discharge can vary during that time of the month.

Not sure if this applies to you but my ex husband said he was blindsided by me requesting a divorce even though I plainly told him in no uncertain terms that if things didn't change that I would leave. When I asked him how he was blindsided when I warned him and he said he didn't believe me. I was dump founded by the response. I was literally on my knees crying begging him for a change. I don't want to go too far into details as it is a long story.

He made all kinds of excuses, like something that was being done to him instead of accepting his role in the downfall of our marriage. He ignored me for years, no sex, no physical interaction. I didn't cheat but did start an emotional ql affair that was quickly stopped since I was telling my therapist what happened. And that is when I told him I wad thinking of leaving and he was like an obstinate teenager and would do anything to not make a compromise to spend one night a week with me watching something, playing something just spend time with me. Refused sex for so long I just was so lonely even though we worked the same hours, went to the same gym, got along with friends and family.

Anyway, I am rambling. Try to accept she requested a divorce and she can do what she wants for the most part.

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