To be honest with you, this seems kind of petty. I actually went back through your post history just to try to get additional context if this is sort of “one thing in a long line of things” but it really seems like all of your disagreements are mostly normal marital squabbling.

I think it’s probably clear that you’re mentally over the relationship and/or don’t really have any remaining affection for your spouse. You’ve clearly already infantilized him in your head, and based on your own description of the situation across your posts it seems like he’s making an effort but you’re not willing to accept that effort. I imagine that shows in your interaction with him so I’m not surprised by his petulance.

I think it might be more beneficial for you both to do individual therapy for a while before committing to couple’s therapy.