Couples of Reddit who rarely have sex, why is this?

Yeah duty sex is a thing, I suppose. Mine says she loves me like crazy and I know she does. She gets my autism, but I've had to throw every fantasy in the trash. She doesn't care. She refuses to seek therapeutic/medical care. She's never initiated once. I don't want to be with anyone else because I cant have sex without love and it's extremely hard to have love without sex. I wish I could just not care. She gives me vanilla pity sex maybe once a month and that number is dwindling. Love is a very very sparsely found thing where I am. There isn't even women on dating sites in my town. They're all an hour and a half away and you just wind up as another lost message in their overflowing inbox, not that I'm doing that, this is how it was before I met her. She's the only person who gets my extremely frustrating and awkward autism.

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