Crazy how Destiny was a trans advocate for years before is was popular...

It's not right that you have to defend your existence - as an adult - but trans people are traumatizing gay kids with the gender dysphoria discourse. Either mentally or in some cases physically by advocating early transitioning and if they desist its whatever just one gay kid traumatized for life just in case they are actually trans.

I don't understand how you see that is clearly two different levels of bigotry.

I have been more charitable with you and did not invalidate your experience like you did mine but honestly the more common perception I come across among gay men is that bi men are fetishised more than they are erased. That's still bad but again its very different from what I mentioend above.

At the end of the day I'm not an activist and honestly I have enough issues in my life that are not about sexuality/gender and I don't care to argue about it too much.

It's just surreal to see everything that I was told was fear mongering is all actually becoming real. I used to be skeptical that trans people wanted to erase lesbian spaces but it happened. I didn't believe that trans people wanted to give puberty blockers to preteens and mastectomies to 13 year olds but it happened. Like holy shit. I feel so decieved is all. I have no faith left for trans people and thats what I mean by dropping the T. Best of luck for them to argue their case but I'm an ally by default anymore.

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