We have so many other aspects of things in our relationship that we are great in as a couple. We met on our own and fell in love. We make eachother laugh and happy in many ways. Our interests, passions.. we enjoy doing the same things. We are both in similar professions and have the similar life goals. We are very loving and supportive with one another....Unfortunately our sexlife has been a conversation that we haven't been successfully in. Here is where it becomes confusing and frustrating.... it has been from month 1... I thought I was just being too forward.. but... it became too complicated as time passed... we explored compromises.. but it doesnt seem enough... now we dont discuss this out of fear of fighting.. because he blames me for causing us kill our intimacy. ... I'm left in tears.... I hate to leave... I've tried to... just can't stay apart.

I hate this fucking obession he has....will he always hold this fetish forever??? He enjoys watching other men desire me....but I'm willing to find him in the middle and he said he understood... then he didn't

We are both North American born.. and our parents are from eastern cultured backgrounds.