I'm not going to cover all the lead up, everyone else has done a fantastic job of that already. Don't dukes of hazard the pussy, take the time to open the door first. Everyone should be on that level already. So once all the build up has has been done and I move in on the pussy.

I just allow the very tip of my tongue to trace the edge of her labia every so gently. From the top down, one side as light as a feather, the tip of my tongue just delicately saying hello. I trace down one side, and up the other. Quite a few passes all very light but gently increasing in pressure, still just the tip.

Once I've done that for a minute or so I use more of the flat entire top of my tongue and take slow deliberate licks with more tongue pressure against the pussy. I like to alternate in phases from licking for a couple minutes to sucking the clit into my mouth, and everything else that's also willing to come along(the gals with fuller lips basically).

It seems like if you're sucking it the right way(this is a lot harder to explain than I had thought, I guess it's just a trial and error of years before you get a feel for what works best) it really seems to bring the woman towards climax. I like to bring her up and then ease her back down for a moment, just a few times to really build it all up.

I feel like you really start noticing her flavor and juices when she's really really into it. I go in for a lot more sucking at that point and I also like to bring my middle finger into the action. I do the exact same motion one would with their index if they were motioning someone to come here by curling it inwards.

I do that only in the pocket, like before your finger passes the seal.. for lack of a better word. The fingernail side pushes in and then curls back the moment it sort of rests down in that pocket. It feels almost meant for the finger to do that, sometimes as you curl it back you feel suction resistance.

I just steadily do that with my finger, it seems to do more for most women than running fingers into them. Sometimes I like to push two in and curl them up to ride along the g spot but mostly I like this little pocket finger curling thing I've kinda discovered.

If she's open to my other hands thumb in her butt, that's great too. With the thumb in, the rest of my fingers can grip an entire ass cheek(I have really large hands). I don't do a lot of in and out with the fingers/ass. I just allow it to be more of a butt plug, or let her body tell me if she wants me to thrust.

The body will generally direct you exactly how it wants you to handle it. I pay a lot of attention to those signs, every woman is different. I usually suck and lick pretty aggressively as I sense the orgasm is near, trying to increase the intensity as it nears so that I'm giving it my all the moment she bursts into pleasure.

That moment seems different for every woman. Some need you to shut it down right away, as everything is pulsing and throbbing, super sensitive like. Some like a few more licks to carry the intensity as long as they can possibly stand it. Once I know I have to stop, I do the soggy carpet so often mentioned.

It's become something that I prefer more than sex itself. I'm studying to become a massage therapist, so I like to give an extremely sensual hot coconut oil full body massage first. Get her entirely relaxed, then begin changing my massage a bit where I drag the tips of my fingers down from the inner thighs lightly, then I use a firm rub down the same muscles. Finger tips begin right at the vagina, lightly drag them down once, then a little more firmly I rub down those muscles once.

It seems like this tends to drive a woman crazy, and oral is always welcome from here. It's weird because when I first started trying to give cunnilingus, I wasn't much of a fan. Then I met a girl that had a beautiful vagina I loved to be face to face with. She tasted mildly sweet, and she held to the claim that she'd never gotten off from oral, but I was welcome to try if I liked.

Once I accomplished giving her orgasms by oral, I wanted to do it all the time. It became an obsession almost, I had to do that during most every sexual act we got into. She didn't mind at all, and things just continued to improve as I studied my new passion. We eventually broke up and I just never lost the passion for eating pussy.

That was way too long. I'm horrible at summarizing these sorts of things, sorry.