Yes, you see this kind of thinking is EXACTLY the problem. No doubt, men are evil - the difference is that their wrongdoings are so readily pointed out that we get a skewed idea of which gender is responsible for the lion's share of the world's misery.

It's not a matter of anger either. It's a matter of being lied to. We are taught to hate men who "slip up" , whereas women are permitted to manipulate, control, exploit, and inflict huge amounts of suffering on people and walk away without a blemish on their reputation.

Do notice the tacit accusation of misogyny that you are making: that my opinions have been formed on the basis of my anger towards my mother. It's just a thought experiment - mentally swap the genders of the persons responsible for a given injustice, and you will observe that women are given a more charitable ethical appraisal every time.