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Hard to say OP, wish you the best. Granted mine was extreme but not 30%. I can say from experience in a prior very normal healthy long term relationship is even under ideal circumstances ltr’s are difficult at times, 5-10-15+++ years, mix in kids, job stressors, moving cities for work, aging and illness, problems with a child, the list of “life happens” sorts of things, you know what I mean. I wouldn’t even want to be with a 5% bpd in those times. Sure it’s manageable in a short term relationship under perfect outside circumstances, mix in a little life happens, and....no thanks. This was one of the biggest reasons I got out, couldn’t imagine a lifetime of that. Good luck to you and hopefully it continues to work out.

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