Just yesterday, I had a wonderful BDSM date night. We booked a room in a bed and breakfast in a mansion built by an industrialist in 20s. It is a breathtaking English Tudor in the Midwest. My wife wore a pair of riding boots and jodphurs. She also wore a white long sleeve pilots blouse. With epaulettes and 2 front pockets. Her hair was in a tight ponytail. She looked very serious, and fit a domme archetype. Our roleplay was Lady of the Manor and her servant. I had some rules for the evening that started when we arrived.
This was a fun dynamic. When we arrived I was scurrying around opening doors and carrying luggage. We had a humiliating exchange with the staff. A middle age lady checked us in, and asked what we would like for breakfast. I responded, "Eggs Benedict." My wife interrupted "Excuse me...you will have a grapefruit and a hardboiled egg." I responded with a meek "Yes Ma'am." She responded, "Now take the bags to the room and wait for me, I'd like to discuss Elizabeth's baby shower."
She told the innkeeper that I was in the dog house because I was cheating on my special diet and being cheap about her sisters shower. The innkeeper said well he seems well trained, even calling you Ma'am. My wife explained that I was just being passive aggressive, and even joked that when I act like a sullen little boy she wants to tan my hide!
I really appreciate that she did this. We didn't have that woman's consent and do value our privacy in regards to our sex life. It was thoughtful, she gave me the thrill of public humiliation without "outing us".
After about 30 minutes my wife arrived in the suite. It was 4 rooms. A parlor, a changing room, a luxurious bathroom and a bedroom with a large bay window and sitting area. (I should mention this all only costs 200 a night, and was breathtaking).
She snapped "Strip, fold your clothes neatly and neal in front of the fireplace with your hands on your head." I She returned with a cane, a bar of soap and a white waist apron. She tied the apron around my hips. It draped over my erect penis. She than bent me over the back of an antique bench and delivered 12 blistering strokes of the cane. Afterwards she washed my mouth out with soap while lecturing me on my mouth. She marched me to a corner and said "If I catch you touching your self or rubbing your bottom, I will cane you raw." I stood there erect for 40 minutes. When she called me into the bathroom she was soaking in the bathtub. I stood in front of her my striped bottom was visible and I still had a bar of soap in my mouth. She took the soap from my mouth and lathered her pussy. Than sat on my face pleasuring herself with the bar of soap, ostenibly washing my mouth out for a second time. We then went to dinner.
After dinner we went to a small sex shop. (We have done stuff like this before, again we don't play with others and we drive a fair distance to insure our anonymity.)
The young lady working at the store wore a white blouse and skirt with boots and a name tag. She too had an heir of dominance. She asked "May I help you." My wife said, "O yes, I would like to see your male chastity devices!." I was flaborgasted. This is not particularly one of my kinks, but the thrill was exhilarating. The clerk lead us to a locked case, and asked how long do you plan to wear it, as this would help us decide witch device.
My wife responded with sexiest answer possible. "This is all so embarrassing, my husband is addicted to pornography. I read about these in a forum online, unfortunately I feel like he may be in it for a while." The lady giggled a little. Than said "to be honest my fear is that wearing these may cut off circulation and cause damage if worn for an extended amount of time." After several more pleasantries the clerk left us to wait on another customer. My wife bought a leather strap. When checking out my wife said to the clerk, "Thanks for your advice, I am going to try to introduce a little discipline to our marriage, isn't that right honey."
Of course the rest of the evening was very erotic, I have to say how lucky I am. My wife isn't a bdsm person. She embraces this for me, and enjoys it from time to time.