What people leave out is that shifting your subconscious beliefs is a TEDIOUS and TIMELY practice. If you have beliefs from childhood manifesting as desperation and grasping, you adopted an attachment style that pushes away relationships. Think about it, if you’ve had this SINCE CHILDHOOD, do you think it’s going to take some time to really shift and change those foundation beliefs? Yes. Persisting is for that, and you need to persist in a way that you’re not looking to the physical for changes. Make it all about you, your beliefs about yourself and how you hold beliefs about relationships in general. It’s not a quick process, but saying it is really sells to a lot of people.