Ugh. I’m sorry you’re struggling today. I think you should be honest with the RE that you’re trying to understand the path forward and losing hope, so you need their support to feel confident in the recommended treatment.

Would you feel comfortable asking your RE for advice on how to decide if it’s time to stop yrying? I’m not saying you should stop - but maybe mapping out what would need to happen first would help you feel confident in your next steps in treatment. Your husband is already thinking about it anyway. It might make sense to work with your doctor to assess how to make that decision, so that you can consider your options from an informed perspective vs. out of frustration. I understand if you’d rather not go there with the RE yet - just something to consider if this is really in your mind.