I already know this really triggers the men here on multiple levels. I don’t care if you think I’m a hoe or my husband is gay or whatever the latest insult is for people who enjoy non vanilla sex.

I do feel kind of bad for people that hold themselves back from experiencing pleasure just because they think each sex act has some hidden meaning. We’re over here having all kinds of fun because we don’t concern ourselves with whether a sex act (or any act really) matches up with a gender role or not.

One of my requirements for sexual compatibility was always no weird hangups around sex and being open to trying new things. The fact the weirdos here are so triggered by one of the more mild kinks I participate in shows me it was a great filter as it eliminates those uptight boring types.