I really want to call out and thank people in a quick speech at our wedding for their help (bridesmaid is making the dress, my parents giving me enough money to cover food and booze, etc), but my future in laws aren't giving us anything - no money, no help, etc - only saying all the relatives they want invited I've never met (which we're doing to be nice . I don't really care (his mom and I are completely different people and I still feel awkward around her after 5 years), but is it a huge faux pas to do a "thank you" speech and not include them? It feels like it, but I want to include my parents because they're giving us basically half of our budget and we're super thankful for that.