Help me find a jacket for an upcoming trip? I'm heading to Italy for a week in early November. I'm planning on taking just a large backpack and I'm stuck on trying to find a multitasking jacket that works. I need something that's water resistant at minimum (ideally waterproof), hood preferred, not too warm and roomy enough to layer, looks ok on my curvy 4'11" frame, and doesn't scream "American one-bagger tourist" like a lot of the sporty rain shells that are recommended on the one bag subreddits.

I've been eyeing the Uniqlo packable down, but I'm worried it'll be too warm and can't decide between the parka or jacket, also looking at North Face Resolve II but I'm worried it's not trendy enough?