Sex life with my wife had been touch and go. Im much more sexual and had suggested being more adventurous. We had a falling out and some awesome make up sex and things have been picking up.

She has always been against the idea of any anal, however I had suggested once that I was tempted to play with her ass in 69 which was shot down immediately. A few weeks later I waited until halfway through foreplay and suggested it again. This time she said yes, and it may have been wishful thinking but she seemed to enjoy it. But didnt want to discuss it at all.

Ive gradually introduced it and she said "you can do it for you" however its pretty apparent that shes enjoying it, although she still refuses to discuss it.

Today I got the shock of my life when without any discussion she showed me she had bought an anal vibe online. She said it was "for me" which made me laugh internally, as she is obviously enjoying this new part of our sex life. Women are funny sometimes