Thanks for putting this in perspective. You are 100% correct that I am probably pushing too hard to be the boyfriend and we are not at the a point yet. I just need to slow down and enjoy getting to know her. Luckily for me she has made it clear she can see a long term relationship, but I need to let it happen naturally.

Luckily, I didn't make any bad comments about wanting to hang out before she left. Just that I would like to see her. I do regret the leaving stuff at her place question, because it is way too early for that. Hopefully that doesn't turn her off of everything. IMO it is just an awkward moment and not a red flag, but unfortunately now that she told me she has commitment issues I'm hoping she doesn't see it as too much too soon.