I need to know if I’m letting my anxiety get the best of me with this woman I’m seeing.
So last night we had our 7th date and went out to this restaurant she loves. During dinner we started talking more about past relationships and she brings up that she has some commitment issues due to her last boyfriend. They dated for 4 years and then towards the end he changed his mind about wanting kids so they broke up. I asked her if he did want kids do you think she would be married to him and she said yes. For the record they broke up 4 years again and she has not had a long term relationship since then. after dinner we went to another bar she wanted to take me to and just kept drinking. At this point we had a bottle of wine at dinner and then a few more drinks so we were pretty loose and I brought up more relationship talk. I told her I really like her and she says she really likes me too. I then asked her to be honest if she sees this potentially heading towards a long term relationship and she’s yes I do which I’m happy to hear.
So after that we go to another bar and things get hazy. There was a wedding after party there we were chatting with and one of the women asked us how long we have been dating. I asked how long do you think and she said 6 months but it has only been just over 1 at this point. So we are pretty drunk and we’re that annoying couple who were making out constantly at the bar. We go back to her place and have some after date fun.
So we wake up hungover and decide to go get brunch and everything is good. So she invited me back to her place after brunch to watch a movie and we just hang out. During the time back at her place we talk about meeting up again. Last night we made dinner plans for next weekend but then she cancelled because she found out her brother will be in town so no issues there. She is gone for work this week and then busy next weekend and then she is going to Barcelona on the 25th. So I said I’d like to see her before she goes to Barcelona and then she says yea we have 2 weeks. Then we do the math and realize there isn’t that much time because of travel and plans. So she says let’s tentatively hang out before I go. I guess I felt a little put off because I would have hoped she would be more like yes we will definitely find time before I go because I want to see you before then. If we don’t hang out next week it will then be 3 weeks before we see each other again.
Then as I’m getting ready to go I made a joke about taking over some of her bathroom space with my contact stuff and toothbrush. She laughs and then I say can I leave it here or should I take it. And she says you should take it. I probably shouldn’t read too much I into that because we aren’t official and as I mentioned earlier she has some commitment issues.
I guess I can probably chalk a lot of this up to being hungover and shouldn’t worry about it especially after our drunk conversations and making out/sex last night.
So DOT am I getting in my own head about this women or does any of this sound bad?