The only other Dakota was a dude in the marines who said he failed the smarts test 2 times before he got in. He was from NC and met my friend on tinder and bragged about burning down a building, having a baby momma back in NC, and constantly demanded friend not talk to any other guys.

He memorized her schedule within the week and texted her all the time asking where she was and who she was with. They barely met at this point, not even dating. Then he went on to call friend a slut while asking that he be able to get fwb with other chicks while still demanding she not see anyone.

Friend (being the idiot and ignoring both the red flags and me pointing out the red flags) had sex with him and he demanded either not using a condom (he promised to pull out. yeah) or anal. She went anal