Date someone nice but incompatible in the bedroom?

Nope ... No no and Nope

Incompatible is incompatible ... Need to warm up is BS. Either it's there or it isn't.

Sure first time can be fumbling, you don't know how your partner reacts and you gotta get used to stuff not being where it usually it, but in the end you get in there, you do your best to read her and you let go

I mean, if he did some stuff you didn't like based on not knowing you then fine .. but I "needing time to warm" up is just incomprehensible

I need time to warm up screams lack of experience .. which might be ok. But it also point to an ego and being too self centered to to acknowledge this

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