Yeah I've never really been much of a texter, I always just see it as a means of basic pleasantries and making plans, it's actually caused some animosity in previous relationships where some people need more engagement in between seeing each other, but I just have no idea how to do that, it just feels so unnatural, it sucks because it feels like if I now tried to get a conversation going with her it'll just fall flat and look bad because she's already ignored my last 2 messages... I probably should have tried engaging a bit more to begin with instead of going straight to plans, or maybe she's also a bad texter, probably won't ever know :/ ... But as much of a bad texter as I am I just can't imagine outright ignoring someone, even if I was completely disinterested, I think that's part of why it makes me feel so horrible when someone does that to me