Dating 5 months, she called me a creep

I'm not sure why this post has been downvoted, it might well be on the money (or it might not be, either way its an interesting read).

Back when I was 18, I was in a similar sounding relationship, with a university housemate. She was 2 years older than me and I couldn't believe she was interested, as she was beautiful, smart, intelligent, funny, popular, but also a tiny bit crazy. Anyway she broke it off with me about 7 or 8 times over the course of a year, every time it was for about a week, and for that week it always felt like the world had ended, so of course I went running back when she clicked her fingers. It was complicated more by the fact we lived with each other, I mean I knew this relationship was bad for me, but what do you do, hold firm and stay separated while the girl you love (who lives in the room next door btw) inevitably starts seeing other people and brings them back home to fuck while you have to listen?! That did not seem like a viable option to me!

Move out? Couldn't do that either as I didn't have the money to put down on a new deposit, and in any case I was tied into a contract at my current place.

Even if we didn't live together, there is a strong chance I would have still gone running back, as my feelings were so strong, and the world felt so dark when we weren't together. It was very much like a drug addiction.

Anyway, the long and short of it is, if someone breaks it off with you this many times, no matter what they say or how they make you feel, you are pretty disposable to them. End it, and do it on your terms, it will be tough in the short term, but you do eventually get over it.

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