Yeah I was trying to phrase that in a way to make it not sound so douchey. To make it clear, although I know it sounds like that, I am not looking for a girl to just fulfill my sexual needs until I can move on to the next. I am looking for someone to share times with, go and do activities together, chill and all of the above - the same as any relationship, but the difference being we both be in it knowing that is kind of it for now. I have had that before and in bigger cities, that is what a lot of people are looking for. They have a lot more on their minds - careers, sports, studies, communities, etc... - that the relationship aspect is something nice to have, but not the first priority. I know this still sounds bad in a way.

I definitely do not go on first dates spreading that shit around, that is basically saying I want to get laid. Yet, I've been on enough dates in other places to kind of get a feel of what a girl wants a few dates in, sometimes as early as the first date. I've met plenty of girls who don't even want to get married in other places and they were first to say it. But honestly, if I feel get a vibe that a girl is looking for something serious, when I am not, I back away because I'd be a complete waste of her time and she should try to find someone who isn't. I've done that before too and it isn't a nice thing to do to someone. I do not have predetermined end game, I am just stating what I currently want. My thoughts could change with the right person. but currently I know that is not what I want and I feel to get in a relationship knowing a girl wants more under the pretense that my feelings could change isn't fair.