Dating advice

the fact that you're scared is okay. i can totally understand that. you have been dating for a while now. taking it to the next level is all natural. honey, please don't be afraid she will go for a guy. if she likes you, she will commit. however, you, being scared to commit is another story - ask yourself truly whether you want this (which really seems like you do). then ask yourself.. what exactly is it that is holding you against committing?

being afraid of someone hurting you is normal and yeah.. its part of a relationship. when committing to anything, a person or whether a situation, you have to keep in mind that there is a possibility it could turn out negative. but don't let that ruin it! what if you would miss out on this opportunity just because you are being scared? you will miss out on so much in your life! and whatever if that happens! you will get past that. i know you can.. go for it my love. you deserve to be happy. if you stay true to yourself and to her, you are better than any guy AND girl out there. idk if this helps but i hope so. if not, reach out to me whenever you feel like it. good luck b

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