Dating gay guys = impossible

Hello

I was about to post the same question,exactly the same one.

Your post made me happy,obviously not for what you asked,but for knowing there are gay guys out there looking for the same I am looking for.

I feel the same,I want a real relationship,to have a boyfriend, spend the day together, share our interests ,be happy together. I real relationship.

Sadly I've experienced the same ,guys only looking for sex, I'm not saying I'm not into sex,but it would be better if you do it with your boyfriend than with a complete strange.

I hope there were more options for guys like us,the guy who told you ,you were an alien, pissed me off,seriously, for guys like him is why guys like us can't find a real love relationship.

Actually, you've been lucky,you've already had a 1 year relationship with a guy at 16,that is pretty great,I haven't had it,at 16 I met a guy in highschool who I liked alot,but we had such a social pressure that both of us had girlfriends just for pretending,by the end of highschool,exactly on the graduation day I found out that he was gay too and that he was interested in me,that he had girlfriend because I had,so he did it for jealousy,he wanted me to be his boyfriend, unfortunately,he moved out to another country and I have not heard from him since;now that I'm at my early 20's I find the situation of finding a boyfriend way harder,for the one night stand thing and because most of us (gay guys wishing for a real relationship)are so few and don't even out enough like to find us each other.

If you find the way to have a real boyfriend, let me know please. You're not the only one,trust me.

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