Dating my bf behind my parents’s back

No I’m in the US. My parents are like this bc they don’t want us to “fuck” up. When I say us, I’m also referring my sisters. I’m the oldest in the family and they expect me to follow their rules and to be good. Most of my relatives such as my cousins either graduated HS and didn’t pursue a college education or got pregnant while in HS so they didn’t want that to happen with me so that’s also why they are on top of me all the time. When I finished community college & transferred to RU, my parents were ready to help me pay whatever was left of the tuition bill. My father had told me with a straight face that if I were to ever to introduce to them a guy and tell them that we’re dating then I would be cut off and kicked out. So now I’m lost and luckily my boyfriend does understand the situation I’m in so he’s worth it.

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