Dating in public places vs Dating at home

You're welcome ... And it's clear that you're struggling with this ... I knew hostility would only make it worse ... You said that you have never hurt a woman up above ... And I have no reason not to believe you but ... You and I know people lie ... In fact, you gave some really good examples ... You know your heart ... She doesn't yet ... That takes time ... And you're right there are no guarantees! ... What it comes down to is minimizing risk ... That's what it really comes down to ... We put seat belts on in case of getting into an accident but statistically? Everything we do is a matter of minimizing risk of harm.

And I feel like you might be internalizing the comments and I wouldn't ... Again, you know your heart ... But I do have to ask you a question and you don't have to answer ... Introverts are often very sensitive even empathic as you probably know ... And many times when under pressure or stress they just can't take on any more ... Are you under more stress or pressure than usual right now? And is it possible that could be negatively affecting you're ability to find a solution?

And one last question ... Speaking for myself I know that if I'm not really interested I'll make excuses ... If I'm really interested I'll find solutions ... Is it possible that you're just not that into her? Again, you don't have to answer. But you seem like an intelligent individual who doesn't view matters one dimensionally ... Best wishes ...

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