US dating someone from South America- being the sole provider- anyone have experience with this?

As I get older I’m starting to feel like in the future I would want someone to meet me halfway with providing. I’m not sure if I should gamble with this and continue to see if that happens or not.

Coastal already gave you great feedback. In your shoes, I'd also think about how and when you're going to close the gap.... if your partner isn't working in an in-demand field, and has tons of experience, him getting sponsored for a work visa are basically zero....sure, there are other options you could explore (e.g. study visa, or work and travel in a third country), but that's not everyone's cup of tea.

Hence, this mainly leaves marriage as an option....how do you feel about being your partner's sponsor and supporting him for X months until he gets his greencard? What if your points of views suddenly don't match anymore?

/r/LongDistance Thread