Dating in your 30s is weird...

Relatable. It started getting worse for me this past year, honestly. When Tinder first came on to the scene, I was scoring dates pretty often. Granted most didn't amount to anything, but there were a few really great dates that resulted in some action and additional dates. Last year, I met a fantastic lady in Tinder, but she was just visiting L.A. and didn't live out here. Fast forward a year, now she's dating someone back in her hometown (damn it hurt to find that out on Instagram, but it was to be expected). This past year, it's been a struggle to even get matches on the apps. So, I've been shifting my attention to just getting out more, but it requires more energy and focus the older I get. It's so frustrating. I'm putting myself out there, just not getting desired results.

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