I'm ashamed to admit this but when I was a horny, drunk, dumb, depressed (post-breakup) nineteen year old I sent a dick pic to a random girls snap I found off Tinder.

I'm very ashamed of this. But she actually responded positively; she sent me video snaps of her spanking herself, and I asked her to say certain things in them and she did, but I was, again, drunk and kept screen shotting because I was confused and not remembering things correctly (she apparently asked me not to). That angered her so I showed her I deleted all the screenshots and we stopped sexting.

I'm still deeply ashamed of this today. I feel like a total creep when the memory surfaces. But we sexted once or twice after it, and were going to meet up for sex, but I ghosted her because I kept feeling bad over the way we met.

So anecdotally it can work but it's still a gross and dumb thing to do that probably only works on rare occasions.