Dear girls, please answer

Lol.

I wouldn't hate it but probably not love it. If I was flat-out asleep, unconscious, I would mostly just be confused until I woke up and figured out what he was trying to do. If I was super tired I might be annoyed, but if not I could get into it.

However my boyfriend said he wanted to be woke up to a blowjob to a blowjob and to wake up in bondage once. The blowjob one we tried, but I honestly had to sorta wake him up a bit first to get him to roll over to where I could even touch him, then I just lightly played with him til he was hard and then went down. He was awake by that time, but I just don't think it would have worked out to try to do it while he was dead asleep, soft and rolled facing away from me. ;)

The bondage one is cute in fantasy, but in reality - fantasizing about waking up to some sexy shit is fun because you're awake while thinking of it. The idea turns you on .. but when truly unconscious and asleep, you can't think of things the same, you don't know what is happening til you wake up, so to try to put him in bondage asleep might result in a sexy wakeup, or in me getting punched in the face when he unconsciously reacts to what seems startling or threatening while not awake enough to know what's going on. Just as him putting his dick on my face could result in fun times when I wake up, or in me lashing out and slapping or punching him in the dick/balls in a startled/panic response while asleep before realizing what happened. It's always gonna be a toss up even if your partner is willing for you to do this, cause when asleep there is no telling how an odd feeling like suddenly having a dick on your face will make you react, and it could go bad before the other person even realized what they did.

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