Dear Single and Not Single men.

You act as if you would even be in my league. I doubt I would be able to talk to you for 5 sec without being annoyed to the point of wanting to fuck myself.

Women are constantly rejected also. I reject 90% of the women in a club within 5 sec of entering. You are just benefiting from men with no options, which is why they don't even wash their hands for you.

We have no issues finding people to play with. We just prefer to not play with women that want to touch her, and many women even straight ones still like to touch her. When they do we leave.

I don't complain about getting rejected, I do think it is harder for straight couples as it is not the norm in the LS, because so many couples require F/F play or prefer it to be some aspect of play, so the options are fewer. It is just a fact that many couples are looking for F/F play and the men are secondary. Most don't even have pics of themselves, so how much could they really care about the male half? That has nothing to do with me those men are just fucking whoever their wives can play with. They aren't making decisions for themselves.

So yes, I create a space for straight couples to come and party without being pestered to kiss other women or play with them or rub their boobs together. We focus on women who like a dick as the main attraction. I also give them advice on how to navigate and ignore all the pressures of women to be bi as a requirement in the LS and give them other options.

I don't resent women, I resent women telling men to do all kinds of crazy shit to impress them when the opening sentence is you think most are ugly anyway.

It has been routinely proven that women find less than 20% of men attractive. The key is that they are not all the same 20%. Women like big guys, little guys, fat guys, skinny guys, fit guys, muscle head guys, smooth guys, and hairy guys.

I think it is important for men to hear that your way is not the only way. Other women will readily fuck them just the way they are.

I don't need a bi woman either, or to shave my body or do all this other crazy shit that men do to try and get random women to notice them. I just do what I like, and what she likes, if you want to fuck, call us, if you don't then keep scrolling. Seems to work fine and my wife doesn't have to mold and manipulate women into fucking me or pretend to be bi for us to find couples, women or men.

You call it self-improvement, self-improvement for who. You. It's not all about you. There are plenty of types for everyone to fuck. If they want to fuck your type, then they can try to fit in with you. I don't so I will not comply.

/r/Swingers Thread Parent