Oh poor little lesbian woman being objectified for being lesbian, poor little thing all troubled because of your sexy gender choices. Poor you! Sucks to be you and your whatever problems with pushy guys being drawn to your sexual life. Try being a 5 year old girl and pushing your horny father away from you. Try being fifteen and pushing straight guys away from your straight drunk confused self. Try being 24 and sick of it all and still having to push them away from you, physically pushing them away from you because even if you're straight and clear in your sexual choices they STILL can't understand that NO means NO. Try being 32 and going all numb and dead inside because you still have to struggle with dudes who can't understand what consent is about. Poor you lesbian you.