Rape is another problem, did you know in the deen of Allah swt, a man can have consumation with whatever his right hand possesses. And that there is no limit to the number of concubines a muslim man can have. A muslim slaveholder was literally entitled by law to have sexual relations with his female slaves. What if they didn't want to? Is it rape? Well in the times of the salaf, he was given right BY LAW to have sexual relations with her. In the west it is clear would be considered rape. But in the deen of Allah swt, Allah has given us clear authority legislature and authority to do so. So what is "rape"? I am just advising you to think hard before your assumptions. Seriously think. The problem with these speakers is they are apologetic to the west. Over and over they do not fail to find ways to domesticate and tame the deen into something that is westernly acceptable. Orientalism at its finest. Please submit to your lord truly and have peace with Allahs rulings or leave islam in its totality if you cannot. We do not soften islam or make it more cosmetic just to make the west happy. Either you accept islam in its totality with all its rulings or you do not. these matters are clear.