did anyone experience the narc saying something extremely vague and then when you ask a question about it they go into a rage?

This is kinda how it was for me. I found her Reddit account and saw she was looking for advice to start a relationship with someone, months before we broke up. When I confronted her, she physically assaulted me, quite a bit. Funnily, I didn’t know the extent of it at all, and came to find out it was so much worse than I thought. And she was so comfy lying about it all, too. Even gave her multiple chances to wipe the slate clean to start fresh, just wanted honesty.

I sent her a text 3 days after originally confronting her, where she claimed it was just an emotional affair with someone from high school and that nothing physical happened, which was a complete lie. All I sent her was a text saying basically, hey, I’m still in shock about everything and have been having trouble sleeping and focusing at work.

Her response was to blow up, insult and belittle, tell me she’s happy she cheated(amazing considering just how apologetic she got after I stopped reaching out to her). Oh, she also kicked me out, too.

I think these people live in a world of lies and preconceived notions about everything. They never believe what you say, because they lie constantly and expect it in return.

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