3. Did having a child make you realize just how terrible your Nparents treated you?

Did having a child make you realize just how terrible your Nparents treated you?

I don't have kids but I had a roommate who had a young child and I used to imagine how my mom used to treat me when I was her age and I can't comprehend it. Like if I was a pre-k age kid(5 or 6 years) and I misplaced my toy my mom would tell me I was stupid and that some guys don't care how smart or pretty a girl is all they need is a hole to fuck and that I was so dumb and ugly that's all I would ever be and that I would just grow up to have sex with guys to steal their shit to sell for drug money like my aunt. And yes at that age I knew what sex was so I 100% understood what she was saying. Also she would beat and choke me, etc. And I would see how my roommate would interact w his daughter n he would yell at her but never talk/do the crazy shit my mom would.

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