I did my best to become a normie and I'm still FA.

If bodybuilding is something you're passionate about, do whatever you want to do. If you're working out to look attractive, I would argue that your physique has reached its peak level of attractiveness for the majority of heterosexual women. Getting leaner will detract from that.

Hmm fair enough. It is something i do enjoy but if I'm at my most attractive now and having no luck than I might as well pursue what i like.

"fit well" is subjective. This is just one woman's totally subjective opinion, but I'm telling you that I think your personal style is not very appealing, and could do with improvements. If you're really attached to the style you have now, just ignore this.

Can you recommend a style? I tried to find many styles for bald men but they mostly include the whole leather jacket, rebel look which I'm not big on.

It's okay to have tattoos that reflect a different time in your life. They represent a facet of your personality or a chapter in your life, not the totality of who you are as an individual. It's difficult and expensive to remove tattoos, so I'm definitely not suggesting that you do this. I mentioned the tattoos just in an effort to be thorough. Not caring about politics, though, would be a red flag for a lot of people. Politics permeates and controls every aspect of lives, so it's worth caring about, on some level.

I understand. I don't delve into politics because it just creates tension and heated arguments. I'm not fortunate enough to swim through friends and partners so I try to stay away from those sorts of subjects. I'm even trying to stop complaining now because I've seen how that doesn't help me at all, regardless of how men need to be vulnerable now days, it's simply a death sentence.

It's good that you tried this. Don't give up. Just find another activity that's less physical. It doesn't have to be physical at all, in fact.

I guess. I just like being active.

Living around more people increases your odds significantly. There's no arguing with that.

That's true.

Your job is standing in the way of your happiness, then. This could be the single greatest obstacle standing between you and a social life. Who can be friends with someone who's literally never around? How can someone be in a relationship with a guy who works 17 hour days? It's not possible. This is an excellent example of why politics should matter to you. No one's work hours should ruin their life.

It is, but it's also leap frogging me to an early retirement than the jobs i was doing. Plus I'm not interested in work in general or studying. I bring in ~$130k+ so my mindset is to just invest all of it so i can stop working as soon as I can.

It doesn't need to be creative. It just needs to be something that drives you, fulfills you, and helps you keep growing and seeking. :)

I suppose. Getting strong drives me but no one cares. Traveling and seeing the world drives me but no one ever wants to go with me. I think I just need to succumb to doing things I don't care for which most folk do so i can meet people.

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